Adultery is a burning topic. Those who suspect her, torment themselves and others with mental torment; those who change, get tired of lies and the constant fear of being exposed. Committed adultery often becomes the cause of divorce and separation. But is it as simple as cheating as it seems? Whether there are ways to forgive her and save the relationship, what reasons push men and women to infidelity, we will tell in this article.
What is considered adultery in marriage?
Everyone puts their own set of ideas into the concept of "treason" and it depends on education, professed religion, life experience and individual character traits. For some, the fact of physical, physical infidelity is important, while others attach more importance to the moral aspect and violated feelings. Very often, treason is compared with betrayal. Adultery is considered sinful in almost all religions, it is condemned. At the same time, the definition of infidelity as such concerns only sexual relations with another partner with whom a person is not married.
In practice, such a definition looks rather stingy and meager, since it does not reflect all the nuances. It is a mistake to believe that treason is limited only to the boudoir. Today, the world offers many ways of other forms of communication outside of marriage, and therefore some consider it treason and virtual communication with someone on intimate topics, and virtual sex and other electronic forms of erotic communication.
Treason has many faces. This includes lying, which invariably accompanies attempts to hide the truth from the partner, and disregard for his personal interests and requests, and violation of these promises.
Adultery, despite the fact that it appeared in ancient times, almost simultaneously with the institution of marriage, is shrouded in many myths, which also leave their imprint on the idea of adultery as such. So, it is believed that rich men and women cheat more often than poor ones. This is not so — moreover, it is poor women who are more prone to infidelity than rich ones, which can not be said about men.
It is believed that the one who has stopped loving or not really loved becomes a cheater. This is fundamentally wrong, very often cheaters tenderly and tenderly treat their second halves and their plans do not include divorce and separation in any way. Love as a feeling and sex on the side without such a feeling distinguishes the majority of men, which cannot be said about women, since for them there should be at least a minimal emotional, sensual component "on the side".
Many people believe that" they don't walk around from good sex in the family", and sincerely believe that diversity in the bedroom is a panacea for cheating on a partner. Not at all, because there are other reasons for adultery, and sexual dissatisfaction is not the most important of them. The claims that men cheat more often than women are in principle true, this is also confirmed by sociologists: 75% of unfaithful men in account for up to 25% of women who have decided to commit adultery.